Charles Spurgeon Commentary 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

"Love suffereth long, [and] is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not its own, is not provoked, taketh not account of evil;" — 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (ASV)

Always try to put the best construction on other people's actions and work. Let gentleness triumph.