Charles Spurgeon Commentary Genesis 24:12-14

"And he said, O Jehovah, the God of my master Abraham, send me, I pray thee, good speed this day, and show kindness unto my master Abraham. Behold, I am standing by the fountain of water. And the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink. And she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also. Let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac. And thereby shall I know that thou hast showed kindness unto my master." — Genesis 24:12-14 (ASV)

I do not know if he is to be imitated in setting a sign before God; perhaps not, but he did his best. He left the matter with God, and a thing is always in good hands when it is left with him. There is a great deal of wisdom in this sign, however. Why did he not say, "The young woman who will first offer me a drink"? No; she might be a little too forward, and a forward woman was not a fit spouse for the good and meditative Isaac.

He himself was to address her first, and then she must be ready, with all cheerfulness, to do far more than he asks. She was to offer him a drink and draw water for his camels; she would thus not be afraid of work, she would be courteous, and she would be kind, and all these qualities combined might show him, and by this test he might very wisely discover, that she was a fitting woman for Isaac, and might become his spouse.