Charles Spurgeon Commentary Hebrews 5:7

"Who in the days of his flesh, having offered up prayers and supplications with strong crying and tears unto him that was able to save him from death, and having been heard for his godly fear," — Hebrews 5:7 (ASV)

Who in the days of his flesh, when he had offered up prayers and supplications with strong crying and tears to him who was able to save him from death, and was heard in that he feared;

This is to prove his infinite sympathy with his people, and how he was encompassed by weakness. Christ prayed. How near he comes to you and to me by this praying in an agony, even to a bloody sweat, with strong crying, and with weeping! Some of you know what that means, but it did, perhaps, seem to you that Christ could not know how to pray in that very way; yet he did. In the days of his flesh, he not only offered up prayer, but prayers and supplications – many of them, of different forms, and in different shapes – and these were accompanied with strong crying and tears.

Possibly, you have sometimes had a dread of death. So did your Lord. This was not a sinful fear of it, but that natural and perfectly innocent, yet very terrible dread which comes to a greater or less extent upon every living creature when in expectation of death.

Jesus also comes very near to us because he was not literally heard and answered. He said, If it be possible, let this cup pass from me. But the cup did not pass from him. The better part of his prayer won the victory, and that was, Nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt. You will be heard, too, if that is always the principal clause in your prayers; but you may not be heard by being delivered from the trouble. Even the prayer of faith is not always literally heard. God, sometimes, instead of taking away the sickness or the death, gives us grace that we may profit by the sickness, or that we may triumph in the hour of death.

That is better than being literally heard; but even the most believing prayer may not meet with a literal answer. He was heard in that he feared; yet he died, and you and I, in praying for ourselves, and praying for our friends, may pray an acceptable prayer, and be heard, yet they may die, or we may die.