Expositor's Bible Commentary Commentary Matthew 22:12

"and he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding-garment? And he was speechless." — Matthew 22:12 (ASV)

Whether one is good or bad, there is an appropriate attire for this wedding feast. The guest without a special garment, though invited, did not prepare acceptably for the feast. His speechlessness proves he knows he is guilty, even though the king gently calls him “friend” (v.12; cf. 20:13). Thus, though the invitation is very broad, it does not follow that all who respond positively actually remain for the banquet. Some are cast out.