John Gill Commentary Judges 13:11

"And Manoah arose, and went after his wife, and came to the man, and said unto him, Art thou the man that spakest unto the woman? And he said, I am." — Judges 13:11 (ASV)

And Manoah arose and went after his wife
As soon as she has delivered the above, she made all the haste she could to the man again, lest he should think her too long, and depart; and it was proper enough she should go first, to direct her husband where the man was; Jarchi interprets it, after her counsel and advice:

and came to the man, and said to him, are you the man that spoke
to the woman ?
meaning his wife then present:

and he said, I am ;
the very same person; for though he was not a man, yet appearing in an human form was taken for one; and therefore makes answer according to the supposition of him, and was the selfsame person, and in the same form he had appeared before.