Matthew Henry Commentary Ephesians 6:1-4

"Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honor thy father and mother (which is the first commandment with promise), that it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but nurture them in the chastening and admonition of the Lord." — Ephesians 6:1-4 (ASV)

The great duty of children is to obey their parents. This obedience includes inward reverence as well as outward actions, and in every age, prosperity has accompanied those distinguished for their obedience to parents.

Regarding the duty of parents: Do not be impatient or use unreasonable severities. Deal prudently and wisely with children; convince their judgment and appeal to their reason. Raise them well, with proper and compassionate correction, and in the knowledge of the duty God requires.

This duty is often neglected, even among those who profess the gospel. Many parents turn their children against religion; however, this does not excuse the children's disobedience, though it may tragically cause it. God alone can change the heart, yet he gives his blessing to the good lessons and examples of parents and answers their prayers.

But those whose primary concern is that their children become rich and accomplished, regardless of what happens to their souls, must not expect the blessing of God.