Matthew Henry Commentary


Matthew Henry Commentary
"My son, forget not my law; But let thy heart keep my commandments: For length of days, and years of life, And peace, will they add to thee. Let not kindness and truth forsake thee: Bind them about thy neck; Write them upon the tablet of thy heart: So shalt thou find favor and good understanding In the sight of God and man. Trust in Jehovah with all thy heart, And lean not upon thine own understanding: In all thy ways acknowledge him, And he will direct thy paths." — Proverbs 3:1-6 (ASV)
In the way of believing obedience to God's commandments, health and peace may commonly be enjoyed; and though our days may not be long on earth, we shall live forever in heaven. Do not let mercy and truth forsake you; God's mercy in promising, and his truth in performing: live up to them, maintain your interest in them, and take comfort from them.
We must trust in the Lord with all our hearts, believing he is able and wise to do what is best. Those who know themselves find their own understanding to be a broken reed, which, if they lean upon it, will fail. Do not plan anything but what is lawful, and ask God to direct you in every case, even though it may seem quite straightforward.
In all our ways that prove pleasant, in which we gain our point, we must acknowledge God with thankfulness. In all our ways that prove uncomfortable, and that are hedged up with thorns, we must acknowledge him with submission. It is promised, He shall direct thy paths; so that your way will be safe and good, and happy at last.
"Be not wise in thine own eyes; Fear Jehovah, and depart from evil: It will be health to thy navel, And marrow to thy bones. Honor Jehovah with thy substance, And with the first-fruits of all thine increase: So shall thy barns be filled with plenty, And thy vats shall overflow with new wine. My son, despise not the chastening of Jehovah; Neither be weary of his reproof: For whom Jehovah loveth he reproveth; Even as a father the son in whom he delighteth." — Proverbs 3:7-12 (ASV)
There is not a greater enemy to the fear of the Lord in the heart than self-conceit of our own wisdom. The prudence and sobriety which religion teaches tend not only to the health of the soul, but to the health of the body.
Worldly wealth is merely a poor substance; yet, such as it is, we must honour God with it, and those who do good with what they have will have more to do more good with.
Should the Lord visit us with trials and sickness, let us not forget that the exhortation speaks to us as children, for our good. We must not faint under an affliction, however heavy and long it may be, nor be driven to despair or use wrong means for relief.
The father corrects the son whom he loves, because he loves him and desires that he may be wise and good. Afflictions are so far from doing God's children any hurt, that, by the grace of God, they promote their holiness.
"Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, And the man that getteth understanding. For the gaining of it is better than the gaining of silver, And the profit thereof than fine gold. She is more precious than rubies: And none of the things thou canst desire are to be compared unto her. Length of days is in her right hand; In her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, And all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to them that lay hold upon her: And happy is every one that retaineth her. Jehovah by wisdom founded the earth; By understanding he established the heavens. By his knowledge the depths were broken up, And the skies drop down the dew." — Proverbs 3:13-20 (ASV)
No precious jewels or earthly treasures are worthy to be compared with true wisdom, whether the concerns of time or eternity are considered. We must make wisdom our chief pursuit; we must risk everything for it and be willing to give up everything for it.
This Wisdom is the Lord Jesus Christ and His salvation, sought and obtained by faith and prayer.
Were it not for unbelief, remaining sinfulness, and carelessness, we would find all our ways pleasantness and our paths peace, for His are so; but we too often step aside from them, to our own hurt and grief.
Christ is that Wisdom by whom the worlds were made and continue to exist. Happy are those to whom He is made wisdom by God. He has the means to fulfill all His promises.
"My son, let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep sound wisdom and discretion: So shall they be life unto thy soul, And grace to thy neck. Then shalt thou walk in thy way securely, And thy foot shall not stumble. When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: Yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet. Be not afraid of sudden fear, Neither of the desolation of the wicked, when it cometh: For Jehovah will be thy confidence, And will keep thy foot from being taken." — Proverbs 3:21-26 (ASV)
Let us not allow Christ's words to depart from us, but keep sound wisdom and discretion; then we will walk safely in His ways. The natural life, and all that belongs to it, will be under the protection of God's providence; the spiritual life, and all its interests, will be under the protection of His grace, so that we will be kept from falling into sin or trouble.
"Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, When it is in the power of thy hand to do it. Say not unto thy neighbor, Go, and come again, And to-morrow I will give; When thou hast it by thee. Devise not evil against thy neighbor, Seeing he dwelleth securely by thee. Strive not with a man without cause, If he have done thee no harm. Envy thou not the man of violence, And choose none of his ways. For the perverse is an abomination to Jehovah; But his friendship is with the upright. The curse of Jehovah is in the house of the wicked; But he blesseth the habitation of the righteous. Surely he scoffeth at the scoffers; But he giveth grace unto the lowly. The wise shall inherit glory; But shame shall be the promotion of fools." — Proverbs 3:27-35 (ASV)
Our duty is to observe the precepts of Christ and to copy his example. We are to do justice, to love mercy, and to beware of covetousness. We are also to be ready for every good work, avoiding needless strife and, if possible, bearing wrongs rather than seeking redress by law. It will be found that little is gained by contention. Let us not envy prosperous oppressors; far be it from the disciples of Christ to choose any of their ways. These truths may be despised by the covetous and luxurious, but everlasting contempt will be the portion of such scorners, while Divine favor is shown to the humble believer.
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