Matthew Henry Commentary Romans 14:1-6

"But him that is weak in faith receive ye, [yet] not for decision of scruples. One man hath faith to eat all things: but he that is weak eateth herbs. Let not him that eateth set at nought him that eateth not; and let not him that eateth not judge him that eateth: for God hath received him. Who art thou that judgest the servant of another? to his own lord he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be made to stand; for the Lord hath power to make him stand. One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day [alike]. Let each man be fully assured in his own mind. He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord: and he that eateth, eateth unto the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, unto the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks." — Romans 14:1-6 (ASV)

Differences of opinion prevailed even among the immediate followers of Christ and their disciples. Nor did Saint Paul attempt to end them. Compelled assent to any doctrine, or conformity to outward observances without being convinced, would be hypocritical and of no avail. Attempts for producing absolute oneness of mind among Christians would be useless. Let not Christian fellowship be disturbed with arguments about words.

It will be good for us to ask ourselves, when tempted to disdain and blame our brothers: Has God not accepted them? And if He has, dare I disown them? Let not the Christian who uses his liberty despise his weak brother as ignorant and superstitious. Let not the scrupulous believer find fault with his brother, for God accepted him, without regarding the distinctions of foods.

We usurp the place of God when we take it upon ourselves to judge the thoughts and intentions of others, which are hidden from us. The situation regarding the observance of days was much the same. Those who knew that all these things were set aside by Christ's coming paid no attention to the Jewish festivals. But it is not enough that our consciences consent to what we do; it is necessary that it be confirmed by the Word of God.

Beware of acting against a doubting conscience. We are all prone to make our own views the standard of truth, to consider things certain which to others appear doubtful. Thus Christians often despise or condemn each other about doubtful matters of no importance. A thankful regard for God, the Author and Giver of all our mercies, sanctifies and sweetens them.