Commentators see Elkanah's question, "am not I better to thee than ten sons?" not as a dismissal of Hannah's pain, but as a profound expression of his love. He attempts to comfort her by reminding her of a blessing she already possesses: his unwavering affection. Scholars suggest Elkanah is placing the value of their marital bond above even the great cultural blessing of a large family, offering a powerful model of spousal support.