Scholars consistently note that the word translated 'moderation' means much more. The Greek term, 'epieikes', describes a 'gentleness,' 'forbearance,' or 'sweet reasonableness.' It's the quality of a person who doesn't rigidly insist on their own rights, who yields for the sake of peace, and who shows gracious consideration to all people, not just friends. It is an active, Christ-like gentleness, not passive indifference.