Charles Spurgeon Commentary John 2:4

"And Jesus saith unto her, Woman, what have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come." — John 2:4 (ASV)

It was a very difficult position for him to be in, to act the part of a loving and obedient son as far as his humanity was concerned, and yet, as the Son of God, by no means to compromise his divine character, but to stand out as being under no influence of the flesh. Just as we are not to know Christ after the flesh, so he no longer knew mother, or brother, or friend, according to earthly relationship.

When Mary intruded her motherhood upon him, it was only right and fitting that he should say, What have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come. The Savior had an hour for everything: an hour for suffering, and an hour for working; and he did everything punctually, promptly to the minute.

That was one of the beauties of his life: Mine hour is not yet come. Perhaps he meant, "My hour to work this miracle is not yet come;" and he would not be hurried by anyone. Beloved, it is not easy to be familiar with Christ, as I trust we are, and yet always to maintain humble deference to his sacred will. Never let us pray as if we were dictators, or his equals. We must keep our place, however near we come to the dear bosom of our Lord. He is still in heaven, and we are on earth. He is the Master, we are the servants; and if we are as favored as his mother was, we must not go too far, as she did.